Wednesday 19 June 2013

Consensual verses Non-Consensaul

    
Our friend Hermione, over at Hermione's Heart, a few weeks ago had a bit of a nasty accident and burnt her hand. I hope you are now fully recovered Hermione.

This throw up a question that has interested me for a very long time.

Why does the intense sting of a good spanking or the fiery line of the cane excite and for the most part for the spankee bring a lot of pleasure but different types of pain is not at all pleasurable in or on any other parts of the body. The post got some very interesting answers and can be found here. 

Under the heading Pain or Pleasure   

My old martial arts teacher use to say pain is merely a sensation, enjoy it why it lasts.

When it comes to pain why do some people either enjoy it or just shrug it off and ignore it when some cannot tolerate it at all.
This post is in no way scientific and is just my views on observations i have made over the years.

At school the slipper and cane for most people was a very effective deterrent but for some even at a young age didn't really care about the pain. They happen to have a lot of fun getting into trouble and causing chaos and the discipline was just something to be endured before they started on their next trouble making escapade.

Our friend Joey wrote a post back in May last year entitled
IRON BELL ACADEMY CLASS:
The Cane
Which can be found here;


In the post Joey talked about a caning master class and a gentleman called Mr Michael George Lewis. His first caning at the age of 6 did not deter him at all, quite the opposite. He liked it and indeed craved it, over his school years he got in as much trouble as necessary to make sure he fulfilled that craving. For most children at this age the experience would be frightening but his brain was wired different and although it was in place as discipline for him it was somewhat consensual. 

I have friends that are rugby players that if they take a bad knock have to stop while a few others can carry on playing with a broken foot or fingers and you would not even know they were injured.

I have never hide the fact that the biggest turn on, foreplay wise, for me is spanking from any of my girlfriends. Two in particular, TG and the person i married, both had never been spanked in their life, let alone caned but both at an early stage took a very reasonable caning with no movement or noise what so ever, not even a flinch. 

How did they do that? How with no prior experience or a length of time building up to it and may be building a tolerance did they manage to take a long spanking and a 6 stroke caning.

Fascinating

From my side it seems to be both physical as in certain chemical reactions in the body and a strong mental attitude. Athletes are a good example, there strong will to win coupled with their bodies ability to handle the pain of extreme physical exertion makes them what they are and again they are putting themselves through it, consensual.

Most of the spanking models admit that it turns them on and that it is a craving but a few just see it as a job and it does not play any part in their  private live at all.
Someone else explains it like this:-

I HATE the cane. The stinging sensation in such a localised area. gaahhhh it’s almost brutal.
but then...
I LOVE it. I seem to want it more. I want to build up a tolerance to the sting that the cane provides.

It seems to me that whether your into just the sting of a playful spanking, the some would say brutality of a 300 stroke caning, having needles stuck into your back to make pretty patterns or even the pain associated with rope bondage, if it is consensual no matter how much it hurts pleasure can be derived from it.   

You would think pain is pain wouldn't you but obviously not, it is just how your brain is wired and how your body processes that sensation. Either pleasurable or not. 

Just an observation really but very happy to hear different perspectives and points of view   








OUCH ! Now that has got to hurt?

41 comments:

  1. I've wondered about this, too. No doubt that for some the buttocks are an erogenous zone and most other places on the body are not - in general. Every human body is unique in its innervation, plus life experiences especially when young tend to develop preferences.

    I recall an account written by a young woman who was frequently punished bare with a strap by a nun teacher. At first she hated it but as it happened frequently she began to look forward to it. I suppose the emotion inseparable from punishment and humiliation gradually caused a craving to develop. The fact that the teacher did it mainly for her own enjoyment cannot have been lost on the girl and will have transferred itself to her I guess.

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  2. If I'm given a choice of an implement, I often choose the cane. Its funny, I thought I'd never ever ask for the cane but I was wrong. I love it but yet hate it yet want it more and as I said in my post when I don't have it I miss it. Does that make sense.

    Have a good weekend.

    Love,
    Ronnie
    xx

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  3. I have always believed in the motto. "The Cane, must Pain". So if a naughty woman is to be corporally punished, the cane is the perfect implement to be used on her naked derriere.

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  4. Hi there, About 2 months ago our daughter, Liane spoke to my wife about our continuing caning of her for breaking our Rules! She is now 20, and we had thought about this ourselves and decided the benefits for her and ourselves was still right and we were not altering our views on this matter! She came out ofour bedroom in tears my wife said after she spanked her for being rude about it and our attitude! When her end of term report and notes about her behaviour were studied by us we decided to cane her ,twice during the holidays! She was in tears when we told her and my wife took her skirt and her panties off and she bent down over the arm of a chair! We then caned givig her seven cuts each which made cry even more and she left the room 30 mintutes later still rubbing her bottom and thighs knowing she had another caning coming next week, on her bare bottom!HC.

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  5. Hi,I am a married young lady, 23, and hubby and I frequently visit my parents but I often get into an argument with Mum . My hubby stays out of it and when Mum gets annoyed and sends me to get the cane she still keeps for me he just loves it and enjoys seeing me caned as one cne can clearly see form the bulge in his trousers! Off come my skirt or jeans and she takes my panties off as well , with hubby's help!It is so embarassing but I must admit I enjoy it! She does not go easy on me and canes me sharply on my well rounded bare bottom ! I am soon regretting having provoked Mum but I find it such a big turn on ! I hope to suggest next time that Hubby should alaso be caned as he encourages me to cause the row in the first place ,to satisfy his 'enjoyment' !Mrs L

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  6. My Mum still gives me spankings and canings for breaking her rules, which she regards as beiing for my benefit! I keep protesting but to no avail! I'm Janet ,20, and really hate her disciplining me ,quite often too!She punishes me in her bedroom over looking our neighbours garden, and always opens the top windows of my room! This means they can hear me being caned and spanked and my cries of pain and sobbing! Mum says if I behaved there woild be no punishment for them to hear , or tslk about to her and me sometimes ! Jan

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  7. What is it with Mothers ! They have an urge to tell family and some friends that they smack their over 18 daughters', on their bottoms-my bare bottom, which is awful! A week ago she invoked my 'Spanking Agreement' to cane me ,I was seen smoking by Aunt Anne!! She was there to witness my caning and see me have to appear in our study in my easily removed pyjamas, which Mum did ! I went over her knee for a spanking then I had to wait 10 minutes ,my pink bare bum on view, to Aunty and heard by our lady gardener ! I bent over and reachd for my toes and felt Mum tap the cane on my bare butocks, then felt the first sharp cut bite into my bum !I was soon crying out from the pain of the strokes ,Mum pausing after 10 cuts to see my bum and legs before giving me another 5 strokes which finally brought me to tears ! I sobbed in te corner for a few minutes before being semt to my room with a couple of hard slaps! JM

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  8. Has anyone had the birch at home? I had it after my parents were told that I was still smoking in University!I am 20 and this broke a promise I gave them a couple of months earlier when after having recieved 10 stinging stokes of their school type quite thick cane,-they are both teachers- which left me very much regretting my actions! They were upset ad told me I would be getting the birch at the weekend! I went down to the study inmy pyjamas and Mum slpped my trousers off and I had to lie over the arm of the sofa! They had cut the thin switches and made the birch from 6 of them tied together! My bare bum was ready and they then gave me about 12 sharp stinging cuts which was awfully painfuland had me cyoing ou loudly and bursting into tears after 4 or 5 stokes !They ignored my tears until I had the full 12 stokes ! Iwas left to cry in te corner fr 15 mnutes ,they gave me a big hugan mum took me up to my room and inspected my buttocks for any cuts etc. I have now stopped smoking ,but they have promise me another birching if I started again !

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  9. My Mum was very interested reading about the young lady having the birch! She had lectued me about smoking again last week when she saw me and some friends in a pub in tiown ,smoking and drinking!She said she she was going to try to birch some sense in to me -nothing else had worked! that evening in front of two of her friends and three aunties she undressed me below the waist and made me bend over a chair and gave me 10 strokes of a birch made of 7 switches from out garden, which I had to cut,clean and tie together!The pain was horrible and she took her time. letting each stroke teach me a lesson, she said! I was cryng before she finished and my bum and thighs were left covered in thin red raised weals,mybu was just very ned! I have not smoked since then, but it is early days! I do think that I want another birching! Liane

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  10. I can assure you that my punishments are not given me with my agreement! I think my parents are really awful insisting I should be spanked and caned -and on my bare bottom each time ,which is quite often though I am 20! They can see all my private. intermate parts as I undress for them to 'deal with me'!They both punish me but Mum mainly and she makes makes sure I really feel the pain of my canings ! If I move to much during my canings she makes me hold out my hands for the strap which I hate even more than the cane on my bum! I can see no end to these punshments whilst I live at home and even thinking about that can make me cry but not as much as the cane which they give me quite sharply and slap me while I do 20 minutes corner time ! Miss G

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  11. Hello All, I work in IT- ultra modern industry , but my Mum still seems to think in Victorian terms, when it comes to punshing me! Yes ,she still insists on giving me the cane, or a spanking ,although I am just over 22 years old ! I do not have a boyfriend ,at present , so she does take advantage to cotinue to punish me as if I was still a teenager!However I do love my Mum and tend to think like her ,that as I live at home ,she is entitled to exspect I will respect her Home Rules! I do feel loved even when she does punish me, and takes my jeans and panties off to do so! My bare bum and my thighs , are duly caned or spanked even in the diaper position sometimes, so she sees my vagina and pussy ! MIss KS.

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  12. Hi.I am Kate ,19 now . My Mum and I have a typical relationship as I still live at home ,subject to her home Rules which are reasonable but mean I am still too frequently ,over her knees or the arm of a chair for punishment !Mum takes the view that I should be subject to CP whilst in Uinversity to help ensure I do study hard ! What happens after that, if I am still at home, she says is down my behaviour and I get the feeling she would not hesitate to give me a good spanking or the cane , as now, on my bare bottom! AS it is She uses a short cane for over the knee caning which hurts after a spanking given first! Miss K.

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  13. Hi.I'm Julia,23 and engaged to a young man, Len who fully supports my very strict parents in giving me CP despite my age if I break Mums Rules , and My Spanking Agreement with Mum! He does like to spank me and has done so, with Mums agreement and in front of her and sometimes Dad and some of my Aunts and Mums lady friends! I find it humiliating ,but exciting too ,as it is always on my bare bottom! Mum always undresses me ,removing my panties whilst I'm over her knees!Len does not seem to be the least embarrassed at all by the audience and clearly enjoys spanking me! Julia.

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  14. Hello, I'm Jean and I am 24 but have to live at home whilst I save enough for a small flat! My parents put aside money for me to help achieve my target which is growing quite quickly now! However Mummy still believes in the value of keeping a cane ,in fact she has three ,accumalted over recent years! Dad approves and shares in caning me sometimes ,over my pyjamas ,unless Mummy feels I should get it on bsre bottom ,not even allowed thin panties! Two weeks ago my monthly Review by Mummy meant I ended up with her caning me in front of my two aunties, and my sister and Sil! All ladies meant she undresed me and removed my panties so they saw my shaved pubic mound of venus! It really is so awaful but I have to accept it! My bare well rounded bare bottom was soon being spanked by them at Mums invitation, 3slaps each which hurt me before I lay over the arm of the sofa! Mummy adjusted my position and then i felt the cane swish down on my bare flesh including the tops my thighs!i was soon really feeling the burning pain of pain of the sharp strokes and got the ful 12 cuts! I was sobbing and rubbing my bum as I went into the corner for 20 minutes of more slaps! Later on she came up and gave me a cuddle as she examined my bum and checked no cuts had gone into my bum cleft! Jean, feling sore!

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  15. Hello, Jean posting. Mummy was very pleased with my reaction to her caning! My bootom was sore for 4 days and I had to sit on a cusshion for two days However I was repored for smoking some 20 days later, by an 'ex' boy friend , out of spite for me dumping him ! Mummy had had rather liked him but he was only after 'one thing'! I had been smokimg with friends in our usual Pub and I pleaded with Mummy ,pointing out my very recent caning! She replied all the more reason for more caning to drive home the message! The same people were again invited and I was again undressed by Mummy -so embarrassing to have my private 'bits' on view again! She invite them to smack my bum sharply and make it hurt- 5 slaps each ,this time and they enjoyed slapping my buttocks and thighs and certainly making it hurt me, and my eyes were filling up -it was so unfair! THen she got our parttime house keeper to get the cane, which she loved doing and watching! I had to bend down for the first 6 cuts and cried out fromt he first very sharp stroke ! She took her time giving me another 7 cuts. I shot up and clamped my hands over my burning bottom as the tears flowed down my face! Ihad 15 minutes corner time and got several slaps adding to the pain in my bottom and thighs! She again examined my bum later, as lay over her knees then gave me a cuddle!

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  16. Hello I'm Mrs Pat J. I'm 26, married and a few months ago I was struggling to cnvince my Hubby that it was essential he give up, smoking! well he promised, but didn't. I hate the smell and smoke stinking the housse out! I decided that was it and warned him to stop or I will spank and cane you!! I dod not think I would until a couple of canes and a tawse were deliverd! Later after dinner I made him bend down like a school boy and over his trousers I gave him 6 ahrd strokes of a long rattan cane! He danced about holding his buttocks and then I ordered him to take his trousers and underpants off!I gave him another sharp 8 cuts ,which had him in tears! His bottom and thighs were covered in vivid red, raised wweals ! I then put him in the corner to reflect on matters and gave his shrunken penis a squeeze !! He tearfully said he would give up smokingas !I gave him a litle comforting! ! I did not believe him and told him he would get moe csning if he did not! Mrs PJ

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  17. Hi Mrs K. posting, My Husband James. has been smoking for some time and I amd now I am slowly trying to break him of this dangerous habit! He is already forbiden to do so in our house, or garden! However he still does indullge when out with his friends or at work! However I have my friends and what my hubby calls my spies , who do let me know if they see him smoking ! I have warned him frequently of the fact that I will cane him, if he is caught although he is 27 years old.! I am a senior teacer and find no difficuly in buying a senior cane, not from school, but over the internet! I have 3 canes at present two are quite thick and I apply them to his bare bottom,sharply ! He hates me caning him but I always say he only has to stop smoking to stop me doind so !I invite some friends to see him punished on his bare bottom and I undress him in front of them! I chose a Saturday afternoon so he cannot watch his football team as well as being caned! I do suspect at times he does not altogether dislke being caned in front of the ladies but I'm not sure! After I remove his trousers and underpants I make him lie over the arm of our sofa , one lady will hold him down! I then cane him ,sharp cuts swish down onhis bottom and thighs making him cry out loudly and soon his eyes 'fill up' and his cries of pain realy are loud ! I give him sharp cuts then examine his buttocks after my 7 strokes! He s then onth verge of crying and another 4 cuts starts the tears flowing but I give him another 3/4 cuts! I then allow them to come and look and feel his red ridged bum and even pinch or slap his bum quite hard1 He can then go to our room I go up later with my strap for some hand strapping !later !Mrs K

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  18. Hi Mrs.K posting, After his last punishment and his eaction to it complaining I had whacked his bum to hard I did not expect him to be reported again a couple of days ago! I felt I had to give him another caning in front of my friends , perhaps even harder ! He was pleading withme not to do so and would try very hard to give up!I had heard it all before and rejected his pleas! James was very downcast on Saturday but I nd Aunt Kate examinedhim in our bathroom ! His penis was very erect a we did so,with our oung cleaner tching us do so smiling and gigling ! His embarrassment was nothuing to what he felt on Saturday when I undressed him infront of my friends with their clapping and calling out when I took his underpants down! His penis was very erect but he covered it smartly ! He looked very worried as I asked the eladies to come over and spnk his bum,4 slaps each and hurt him! They did a good job and then he went over the arm of our sofa! I caned him sharply and quite hard stokes were added as well! He was soon crying out loudly an the first tears quickly ran down his face ! THe ladies were again allowed to see and feel his red ridged very sopre bottomand gav him some more slaps and generally had fun wih his penis, by tweaking it and tochinh it some evan gave it a slap! Then altoughh he was in agony, made himholout his hands for 3 strokes on each he went sobbing up to our bedroom! Mrs K

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  19. Hello, Mrs.H here !I am writing to ask if anyone feels like me when I take my Hubbys' trousers down, to punish him by caning or spanking, I am always greeted by the sight of his erect Penis! I am giving him punishment, after all and it is a off putting !I do however find it rapidly shrinks as I start caning! My MUm, his MIL finds it all amusing and enjoyable to watch as dio other invitees who I invite to come and realy sapnk him sharply, say 5 or 6 times each on his bare bottom .I am very ready then to give him the cane ,with very sharp strokes. heis soon crying out loudly and I do givehim 4 reall hard cuts to compleat the punishment and brings him to tears, as he deserves! Corner time is niot a goodtime for him as the invitees slapand pinch his sore pain wracked bum and see his penis which they tweak! Mrs J. H.

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  20. Hi all, Mrs D. here, My hubby hates having his trousers teken down in front of friends, aunties and female cousins for punishmnent on his well rounded, big so very white bottom! I do not confine punishment to his bum but inclde his bum cleft, thighs legs and hands ! I bare his bottom and 2 or 3 of the invitees will come and take the slipper to his bum! He is soon crying out with the pain of it and the hand slaps they delight in giving! Their start encourages others ro come and add more painful slaps and whacks to his red bum! It is then my turn and I get my long cane, and soon have him crying out very loudly from the really sharp strokes I give him to the delight of the invitees and my staff of mature ladies who work with me at my home! His bottom is soon very red and covered in raised red and very painful weals which has him gasping, and sometimes shedding tears as I do cane sharply, giving at least 16 stokes! Mrs D.

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  21. Hi Mandy here, Of course my husband gets the cane and quite sharply on his bare bottom! How ever, I involve family and my friends and he, faces a family and friends Court!It decides if he deseves punishment but I do not always get my way! Last weekend he was given 2 days of detenton and on Saturday faced a sound caning and spanking , with my thonged strap on his bum and into his bum cleft! he spanking team started each of the 7 invitees slapped his bottom ,thighs and legs! I examind his bottom and noted it was quite deep pink!I then gave him 15 painful sharp cuts of the cane as per Court suggestion which had him trying to avoid the strokes but to no avail! He was crying out loudly from the pain which I made sure he felt from the sharp cuts!I also gave him six with thong strap on his open bum cleft which I and all enjoyed ,with his cries ! I gave him lots of 'comfort' later! Mandy.

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  22. Mrs.L here, Hubby and I have starteed to cane our boy John although he is going to Uni shortly! He thinks it is very unfair as we have never even spanked his sister although I have raised the back of her skirt 4 or 5 times ,to give her panty covered bottom a few slaps! John has his trousers and underpants taken down by me which means his privat parts are on show for all to see ! He has a very white bottom which means the red raisded cane marks and hand prints are left on his bum for some days after he is punished ! I and hubby do cane him quite sharply giving at least 10 cuts each time if not even as many as 15 strokes sometimes and we have family members in to witness the caning etc! His Daddy has ssurgested we invite some ivitees to give him some precaning spanks on his bare bottom to become invovled in his punishment .John is fighting that idea and I am undecied if I want that for him but I do like to see other close relations, smacking him ! His sister is allowed to see him caned and spanked ,whilst he is undressed, including his private parts! Mrs L .

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  23. Mrs.L here, JOhn has started Uni now and I did give him a good smack bum soon after! That was 5 weeks ago and He ahs been repoted to us by his Tuor for submitting poor work! We hav lectured him and this afternoon I am going to take his trousers down in front of 3 of his Aunties, 4 friends of mine and two female cousins,ones about his age, also our daughter ! He has eben very vocal in orotesting and he evan started to cry but I just ignore his pleas etc! At 2.30 they were all there and I was taking his trrousers off with underpants! I did finally agree to 5 the invitees comin to smack his bum each giving 4 smacks on his bare buma nd legs !
    That was a shock to him but my cane was given sharply 12 times -my did he cry out loudly!. I gave him 15 minutes corner time and the ladies went to inspect his bum ,some gave him good slaps on his sore bare bum which made him cry and sob even more !Such a baby some cried out, as they did so a little unfairly.! Mrs L

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  24. Mrs L here, My boy, John was faced with another caning some 3 weeks later after more poor results when I attended a meeting with one of his his Tutors-a woman Mrs J. I felt furious and when he came home I ttttold himI was giving him 4 days detention ie that wa stwo weekends detention! On that Saturday, I took his trouses down at breakfast time and made him wear his shorts all day until 2.30 pm when my invitees arrived to find him with his bottom bare ready for his caning! I did not wast timeandinvited another5 people over to smack his bum -5 slaps each on the bare with his private parts also bare! They did a ggod job and he was cryying out loudly when they finished! He looked ready to cry again but he held of until It was some 5 strokes before he started to cry! I did cane his bottom sharply and the cuts were greeted with loud cries of pain each time ! I felt he was really feeling his caning and I felt sorry so I did stop early! Corner time was 10 minutes with them again looking at his bum and some slapped him! He was sent to his room taking my tawse with him!. Mrs L

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  25. Hello ,I'm Janet and I work in Banking havign obtaine my degree .I am 22 , no boy friend at present ! I do however get caned and spanked by my parents , who like to ensure I behave and I am punished quite often despite being 22 by tghem for smoking and coming home late ,after going out with my friends as they do worry about me!Last friday evening I admit I did come home rather late, well after midnight having met a rather nice young man about my age! Their response however was swift and Mumy put in detention for 3 days! On Saturday Mum took out her cane ready for my caning in the afternon! I argued but to no avail and I had a bath and Mm came in with an aunty and they examined my buttocks , which is so embarrassing as they look my bum cleft and see my private parts! Muminvited a couple of her friends and two aunties and my cousin Sandy. At 2.30 we all assembled in the kitchen and Iwas put face over the table ! my bum was raised up with a thick pillow! I was soused to being caned but still dreaded it - it jolly well did hurt! The cane is not too thick but I tensed as she gave me thh first sharp stroke! I gasped and she followed iy at a slow pace but it was very painful and gotwose as she coninued !I had 12 strokes, spread on my bum and thighs! I have to admit bringing tears to my eyes as I tried to move about and kick my legs to avoid the pain! Then I had corner time,h ow i that as they come across to inspect my bum and like to give me slaps, which make me cry out and sob some more! Then sent to my room to reflect on it all as i massage my bum ! Janet

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  26. hello, Mrs B posting . My hubby and I are very proud of our daughter Kate now just 23 ,and her her good Degree , and an excellent Job with a very good Salary! Despite the large salary she still likes to live home with us but her general behaviour is not good! She also smokes and we felt spanking her by hand and giving her light strappings on her bare bottom was the answer but we failed ! We then bought a long rattan cane, and a much thicker strap for her bottom! So far she has hardly changed but she admits the pain has reduced her smoking considerably! She does argue about her punishments but does take them ,even in front of a few aunties and my close fiends!She hjas a super well rounded bottom and I do like to cane and strap her, the thicker strap is making her really feel puinished and has a couple of times she has sctually cried! This weekend she is in detention and on Saturday afternoon she reluctsntly came down to the lounge in her pyjamas and I quickly removed her trousers to applause from the Aunties and a couple of my close friends for six sharp strokes with my strap and six with my cane all on her bare bottom!! She danced about after I had finished, clutching her bare bum and I think she had a tear or two in her eyes but did no cry! Mrs B( perhaps I should cane harder)

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  27. Hello Kate here, A week after that caning I was in the bath when Mum came in for a chat about caning me and told me my older Sister was coming home from France for the summer -she hasd been teaching there for a year! Mumalso said sh was thinking they did not cane of strap me hard enough last time and toexpect it tobe longe not each cut to be harder ! Shealso said tey might put me in the diaper poition to cane me! Sis wanted to see me being caned so I should watch my behaviour! Well i was erported for smoking again by a girl cousin! My bum contracted when she said I would be caned etc and I felt rather turned on by the though that Sis and my cousin would be there to watch! I argued about that but MUm said I did deserve it! Any way the next Saturday after- noon i again had my bum examined by them all! My anus was also bared when my bum cleft was openned! It was awful ,yet I enjoyed the excitement of it and could not wait to get back to my bedroo where I lay on my bed for a while !!! in te afternoon mum qckly undressed me andi was bare from waist down standing g in the corner for 15 minutes before she came inand invited the invitees to come and giveme 3 smacks each on my bare bottom! Some were quite sharp slaps making me gasp! Then Mum took up the strap and gave me 5 whacks before having me bentover te arm of tghe sofa 7 sharp stinging cuts of her cane ! I spent timein the corner, then to my bedroom where my Sis and cousin assembled and with m examined my bum and looked inside my bum cleft to ensure the strap had not got in! Thae massaged my bum and rubbed it for me easing the pain of the punishment ! Kate. (feeling very sore ,where i sat)! !

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  28. hello.Kate here,about 3 weeks later Mum gacve me a good row about time keeping, but poor thing sprained her wrist!However my older Sis ,Diane said she would deal with me helped by my cousin Eve and my SlL Jane!On Saturday after noon Diane took me into the lounge where the others were ready having cleared the kitchen table helped to put me on it with a cushion under me!cIwas face down as Diane removed my jeans to bare my bottom for spanking and caning!They soon made my bum red and I was feeling the burnig pain as they slapped me quite sharply, each taking it in turns to make me feel the pain of the slapsThey haslted whist Diane got the cane out and gave me 7 stinging strokes across my bum and thighs! I was already crying ,the tears running dowm ny face!It all stopped but I ran from the room, sobbing as I did and I locked the door and would not let them in to smack me more times! Kate, (vowing revenge )

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  29. hello Kate here, Well the 3 'Bi.,s caught up wth me on Friday evening after diner! They took me into the lounge and once again I was undressed despite my appeals to Mum and strugles with them! THis time they putme over their knees in turn and spanked me sharply again and I was soon feeling the pain of the slaps which were just as hard as last weekend ! When the spanking stopped they bent me over the arm ofthe sofa for caning .The so and so's gave me 8 stigig cute this time and it hurt more than last week! However I rag my boyfreid ad whnn they all went out to diner that night-I refused to go with the perverts- and he went a head with operation 'Revenge' ! He waited until it got dark when he and his friend went into the car park at the couhtry pub ans diabled the cars , but did not tell me how !They had major problems getting home and I was deighted to hear their comments! The boys had done the same to other cars as wwell to divert any finger pointing at us ! I felt very happy with the results! Kate (still sore in the 'right place')

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  30. Hello, Kate posting , A period of calm was broken by Mum saying she was not satisfied with my time keeping, again raising the matter with me whilst I was in the bath demanding I turn over for her to look at my bum and open my cleft! I told her that was too rude to do, so getting a couple of good whacks from her awful bath brush ,that really hurt me! She told me I was also in detention for two days -over the weekend -so she could get the girls to punish me! They were delighted and made sure they grabbed me Sturday afternoon! THey took me into the kitchen making me clear the table, and arranging the cushions for me to lay on! Mum again had trouble smacking me and they took over slapping, in turn ,quite sharply and I was soon crying out loudly ! They gave me 6 slaps each ,for my 18 slap spanking .It really hurt and I was promising them I would get my revenge ,as tears started to fill my eyes! They examined my bum adding a couple more slaps each ! They then took the cane from Mum, who was enjoying seeig me spanked ,and bent me over a chair ! The 'B's caned me quite sharply again making me cry out from the pain and I started to cry and sobbed when they stopped after 12 sound strokes ! Diane also suggested I hold out my hands form two with te strap on each hand ! I again ran for my bedroom after avoiding corner time! Kate

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  31. Hi there! I'm Shirley just 19 and I am like some of your readers, spanked and given the strap at home! My older Sister,June is never spanked these days,Mu mseems to reserve the spankings , and strap for me ! I find this is very unfair, not to mention how the sharp puishments I get from both of them which do really hurt my bum and thighs! They bear the full force of the spanks and the strap , whilst MUm and Sis like to see my anus given the light strap as I am made to adopt the diaper position for some discipline punishments! Last week was one such time when after my bottom was smacked and I was given 8 strokes of the tawse on my bare bottom ! I had to ly back legs down with my bum so bare and available for the strap and the new rattan flexible cane they tried on me! I was crying even before they started to cane me I had only 4 strokes before I was in tears after the spanking I had already been given! I hated it, and my Sis most of all , I did expect Mummy to punish me , but not my older Sister who was really interested in ensuring it all hurt me ! SHIRLEY!

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  32. Hello all! I'm Anne ,!8 and in my first year at University ! My Mum still also smacks me by hand and keeps a couple of pliable canes, to punish me!One is in my bedroom the other in her study so she has them ready to use up or down stairs! I do love Mum as she loves me ,but she still spanks me and relucantly canes sometimes! To be fair to me she gives me a review of my behavior each Month and often she expresses her delight at my progress in my studies ! About most punishments are are about my time keeping as per my Spanking Agreement! SShe puts me in detention on a Saturady afternoon to give me my punishments, but I can go to Town in the mornings After lunch she tskes me into her study and tells me off often sitting on her knees, and then when i get up Mum wil take my Jeans off with my panties as she always punishes me with my bottom bare ! She glanses at my front , then I stand in front of the 'caning chair' and bend over!My bumios rather well rounded and 'up holstered ' She takes her time getting the 'range' teni fel tghe first stinging stroke of the cane! I am son crying out from the pain of the frirst cuts of a 10 or 12 stroke, moderate caning! Even so I do often cry and she she looks at me and my bottom which is soon covered in red, raised weals ! THe caning over I get corner time and sometimes slaps if I rub my behind 1 Then she says all is over and gives me a hug and I give her a kiss and say sorry as mum gives me a couple of light slaps on my painful, sore bottom, which is still bare for her to see and smack. Anne

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  33. Anne here, Hello all I was in trouble a few days ago for chasing off next door's cat throwing some gravel at it, and hit the pesky thing! Mum sat me down and gave me a row! I defended myself ,saying it tried to catch birds which I love and feed! She said the lady next door had complained and said I should be spanked, which she knew I got ! Mum had agreed with her and I was to have it on Friday, with the cane as well! I was outraged and told Mum so, to no avail! shesaid she was sorry but I did deserve a sound punishment!Anne ,still angry!

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  34. Ann here. Hello all ,well Friday seemed to came very quickly and after lunch we went to Mrs Dean's house and I was wearing a pair of knickers that Mum had altered ,so my private parts could not be seen-apart from my bottom ,which Mum would bare for the punishment! Mrs D ,greeted us with a smile which I did not return ! WE went into the lounge and after some initial chat , Mum said it is time for Anne's punishment now! I stood in front of Mum as she reached for my shorts and removed the quickly then she swiftly pulled my knickers down leavingmy bumbare for the 10 salps and four strokes of the cane ,they would be given by Mum! Mrs D helped me over her knees , felt my bum and then patted my bare cheeks ! She then sapnked me giving me the 10 salps slowly but sharply making me wince and gasp ,as I kicked my legs! It was over quite quickly and she helped me up !i stood rubbing my bum as Mum picked up the cane and flexed it !She told me to bend over the chair and I tensed as she tapped it on my clenched buttocks and felt the first cut swish across my bum! She then followed up with the last 3 cuts which she made sure were stingers! I got up, winced aa I pulled my knikers up and put my short on! I turned around and without speakng ,let myself out and went back home! Anne.( I would get my revenge some time soon!)

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  35. Hello Anne here, It was a monh later when I found myself in trouble with Mum for coming home veery late from a birthday party Iwa laectured and the dangers pointed out from a very annoyed Mum1 .She came ntomy bedroom as i was getting up late She had waited up for me and that made iawful and I apologised ! She thankedme frdoing so but said she would punish me on Saturday! In the afteer noon ihad to go to hr study and she wasted no time in undressing me for my caning and spanking! I lay over her knees my bottom bare as she spanked me sharply with her hand and her hairbrush until I was franticlly trying to avoid the sharp smacks of the brush! I was given 10 minutes to recover and stop crying before she took her cane out and made me bend over the chair 1 she tookher time caningme with sahrp strokes cuting itomy well rounded and padded bottom ! I was crying again and she took pity on m afte 10 stoks and sent me to my room !She cameup later with her tawse and sfter morelecturing I had to hold out each hand for two srokes! Anne, rubbing my sore bottom!

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  36. Hello Anne here, I still find it hard to believe but I am now 19 years old and Mum is still spanking me! Mum got a big bonus in work She took me and my two aunties came slong to lunch at a super old pub in the country! It was to thank me for doing so well in Uni! But she also saw a Sadler's, which sold canes and straps! My bum cheeks clenched automatically ,when I saw them! My aunties bought Mum two quite long ,flexible canes - this spoiled the day out for me! I knew Mum would use them for my next caning! My face showed her my feelings! About 3 weeks later I was reported for smoking by our cleaner, who saw me smoking in the garden! Next Saturday afternoon I was in detention and undressed by mum for a spanking and 8 strokes of the cane , one of the new canes ! Mum took he time lecturing me as she took my skirt off and removed my flimsy panties ! She looked at my bum and openned my bum cleft1 Then I was over her knees for the spanking by hand and hairbrush ! Next with my aunties watching closely Mum gave me the 8 strokes of the new cane!I did not think it was worse than the older canes! I did not cry but it really did hurt me as usual ! Anne

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  37. Hello Anne here, The Shcool hols started and we went on a few days break in London ! We went to see my Aunt Sue and arrived at her house in mid morning! She was very pleased to see us and explained that her son Joe was in the dining room and after coffee, took us in there and heard the sound of a slap as we entered! We were greeted by the sight of Joe standing in front of the sideboard, minus his trousers! His botttom was bare ,no underpants , his shirt tails were held up by their house keeper so his bare botom was just about to be slapped! The smack was sharp and he gasped at the pain! Aunty explned hie end term grades were not good and he was about to be caned!E were invitedto sit down and watch ! I felt my bum cheeks contract as aunty got picked up her long cane and he had to bend down, reaching fr his toes! He really was caned quite sharply and I felt for him, and glanc ed at my Mum as tge canig startd and he was soon crying out loudly from the pain of his caning ! He fought not to cry but did start to do so after 6 cuts, of the 1he 12 he got we did examine his caned bum and we all gave him slaps during his corner time! He went to his room, sobbing as he went up! Anne.( I enjoyed seeing and slaping his bare bum an amzingmorning)

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  38. hello, Anne here, we saw his bottom next morning, after breakfast. It was still wel marked with cane weals and he confirmed it hurt to sit down! We went on our way to sightsee and go home! I was surprised, 3 weeks later, when they paid a return visit but even more surprised, and astonishished when his Mum came into the kitchen with him and in a bad temper!She removed his trousers and I noticed my Mm had put my long cne out for her use on his buttocks !But first he hiked out his long erect penis and held it out! Next she took out a short plastic ruler, and in front of us and our cleaner , She applied the ruler to his penis quite sharply on the top side, the head of his penis, and as he held it upright, to the underside as well ! It looked a litle on the red side in places and he had started to cry from embarrssment, and the pain of the strokes ! I did not know why, but Mum knew ! Oh dear what a start to their visit and his Mum also gave him a good caning of 8 strokes on his bare bottom ! He was taken up to his room by his and my Mum, and we heard whacks and cries comimg from him as he tawse was applied to his hands! I was still wondering but ii gained the impression it was due to his being 'very naughty' ,with his thingy! Anne

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  39. Hello ,Anne here, It must have been a month later and I wss back in Uni! Mum had confirmed my guess at the reason for Joe's punishment! I felt it was unfair but did not argue ! I was in trouble for coming home very late ,once again a month later! next evevening I had my panties removed and I Had a sound caning of 12 strokes!It really did hurt me very much and our cleaner was witness to me crying !she looked after me during corner time and gave me several slaps ,with a heavy wooden spoon! Mum was very pleased with her reaction and then made me hold out for 2 on each! Anne

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  40. Hello Edward here, My Mum was very pleased that I was almost 18, and orderd two long rattan cnes for me1 They arrived when I was in and took delivery of them! Our part time house keeper was there and gave me a knowing look! I did not catch on but Iwas appalled when Mum came home and showed me the two long and one shorter rattan cane! I felt my botom cheeks clench and again as she swished a cane bout! After dinner she orderd me to bend down and gave me two stinging stinging srrokes with a long one ,making me gasp even with my trousers on! I clenchedmy bum again! THen she took out her diary and went through quoting her notes and then I was told to take my trousers and pants down, and bend over again! She really enjoyed examaning my bare bottom,which she hadnot seen for a long time! I could hardly believe how much the next 5 miutes left me crying from the pain of 8 sharp cuts, which I had been promised !My private parts were on view during the caning and were also seen by our house keeper ! Ed.

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  41. Hello Ed here, After that caning My tousers were taken down by Mum or myself ,several times for Family members to come and see the marks, which persisted for some days as word got around ! Two of my female cousins came more than once and each time slapped bum and legs several times dspite my protests to Mum whgo thoughtit was good for my bare skin to be seen by the and two male cousins also came and smacked me! It was three weeks later that I felt the cane agoin across my bare bum as I lay on top of the kitchen table with a coushion under me which lifte my bu int and excellent caning position ,according to Mum ! This time i had several family memderd -aunties and cousins- an also two of Mums' friends witness my caning !They all saw more than my bum ad I felt very embarrassed and blushed deep pink! I was spanked by several invitees before mum gave me me an awful caning again leaving many red, raised weals! They all cheered her on, as I cried out very loudly, as he tears flowed and I tried to avooid the painfuil strokes ! I was given 10 quite hard cuts and several lessr painful cuts!i had a very sore bottom, which they all slapped during my corner time, as I still sobbed !ED

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